Every creator knows or has known that Creative Isolation is not just being alone; it’s being disconnected.
If you’re exhausted, then you must be working… right? Wrong.
If you’re still holding on to a work that was finished ages ago, you’re not making progress; you’re practicing perfectionism.
What Exactly is “Perfectionism”?
Here’s what Julia Cameron has to say about Perfectionism:
Perfectionism has nothing to do with getting it right. It has nothing to do with fixing things. It has nothing to do with standards. Perfectionism is a refusal to let yourself move ahead. It is a loop—an obsessive, debilitating closed system that causes you to get stuck in the details of what you are writing or painting or making and to lose sight of the whole. Instead of creating freely and allowing errors to reveal themselves later as insights, we often get mired in getting the details right. We correct our originality into a uniformity that lacks passion and spontaneity.
Why It Happens in Isolation:
- The Mask of Flawlessness: In isolation, we convince ourselves that everyone else has it all figured out. We believe that we must present a “perfect” version of ourselves to be worthy of connection, not realizing that vulnerability is actually what builds bridges.
- The Unchecked Inner Critic: Without external perspectives, our inner critic becomes the loudest voice in the room. There is no one around to say, “Hey, you’re being way too hard on yourself,” or “That’s actually an incredible first draft.”
- The Cycle of Avoidance: Out of fear that our flaws will be exposed, we pull away from others. We tell ourselves, “I’ll reach out once…” transforming perfectionism into a self-imposed exile.
The Cost of Perfectionism:
- The Eradication of Joy: When the goal is perfection, anything less feels like failure. What happens to our ability to celebrate small wins, enjoy our works of art for fun’s sake, or feel present in our lives?
- Analysis Paralysis: The fear of making a mistake becomes so debilitating that we procrastinate, overthink, or abandon projects and dreams entirely before they even start. What happens to the work of art that’s never started or never shared?
- Deepened Loneliness: The ultimate cost of perfectionism is isolation, keeping us disconnected from the very community we crave. What happens to the Art & Artists when we fail to create and maintain our creative communities?
Unpopular opinion:
That project you’re working on isn’t unfinished. You’re just using perfectionism to isolate yourself from the fear of judgment.
When we practice perfectionism, we not only fail to share our passion and ourselves, but we may fail to share our art at all. What does that get us? What does that get the world that needs our art, our message, our mission, and our voice?
It gets exactly nowhere.
Break the Cycle:
What would it take for you to break the cycle of Perfectionism? I offer a few options: A free 15-minute chat, you can COMMENT here, or contact me to talk about your project. Even saying the words out loud might be the thing you need.
It doesn’t have to be me. You can share your work with anyone.
Maybe not the whole draft yet, maybe that’s too much. What about confessing what you’re working on to a dear friend? A Stranger? What about announcing it on social media? Setting an accountability (shared) goal? Setting a date on the calendar by which time someone (you trust) will be expecting it? You can do it.
Make a start. Stop the spin. Ask for help.

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