Conquering Your Inner Critic

Last week, we talked about Rejection…but that comes from the outside when others reject your work or efforts.

What about the insidious doubts that come from within?

Self-doubt can be a writer’s constant companion.

The nagging voice that casts a shadow over every sentence, whispering doubts about your talent, your ideas, and your ability to craft a story that resonates.

This inner critic is relentless, dissecting your work with a harshness you’d never inflict on another person, much less another writer. It questions word choice, plotlines, and character development, often leading to paralysis and stifled creativity.

This persistent self-doubt erodes confidence, making it difficult to share your work, submit to publications, or even continue writing. The fear of not measuring up can be crippling, leading to missed opportunities and a diminished sense of self-worth.

Learning to manage this inner critic is crucial for any writer who wants to thrive and share their voice with the world.

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If any of these issues are currently bothering you, support is available. Book your free 15-minute meeting where we can discuss your specific challenges and explore potential strategies for overcoming them. Consider it a mini-therapy session for your writing soul.

You don’t have to suffer in silence. Let’s connect and start finding solutions.

STRUGGLES & SUCCESSES

How do I silence the inner critic? I have a few strategies:

  • Name her (or him): My inner critic has the name of a middle school bully. Personify that voice so you can ask it 1)what it’s problem is, 2) what it needs.
  • Do instead of Doubt: I prove it wrong. Prove your critic wrong by doing.the.damn. thing. Sit in the chair for 15 minutes, journal, or make some art. Something that proves that voice has totally got it wrong about you.
  • Turn it around: I listen. Sometimes the voice of doom is there for a reason. Approach your inner critic with compassion and curiosity and see what happens.

You can read more about this and the next topic, writer’s block, in this week’s email. If you’re not getting that email, sign up at linseyewing.com/get-access. You’ll also find some fun writer freebies.

CURRENT NOVEL PROGRESS

TDG Draft 5 Word Count: 18,292 (back from the dev. editor)

ASD Draft 0: 14,376

It’s been going well. I haven’t pushed myself to produce, but I have spent time thinking about both manuscripts. ASD is finally fully outlined, and, though I said I would probably let it rest, I have a few more things to tinker with before I’m done with it. Might as well do them while it’s on my mind.

HAPPENING THIS MONTH

Tonight and every Tuesday through May: YouTube Stream at 5 PM Central / 6 EST

CREATIVE COLLECTIVE: The next meeting is Next Monday, June 2, at 7:30 PM Central / 8:30 EST

In Other News

Don’t forget about

Paperback Promo: Buy one, get one free on GOODBYE and LUKE. Signed and personalized for free. Shipping inside the US only. This Promotion is good through May 31!

and

LIVING WRITE: a 5-module course on creating a writing routine that works for you. Enrollment starts now and ends June 1. If you’re interested in either, contact me.

If you’re having trouble naming your passion, finding time to work, or just want to discuss your WIP, I’m only a click away. Take the time. You won’t regret it.

Start or Finish today. I can help.

Book your FREE 15 minutes

Until next time

xxxlinsey

Let’s Talk About…It.

Probably not what you’re thinking….but we’ll see. I mean the Pain Points of Writing.

Writing is often romanticized, portrayed as a solitary pursuit of passion and creativity. While those elements are undoubtedly present, let’s be real: writing can also be painful. Not just the emotional vulnerability of putting your work out there, but the day-to-day struggles that can make this journey feel like an uphill battle.

Trigger Warning: These posts will discuss common challenges that writers face, including topics like rejection, self-doubt, and burnout. If these are sensitive areas for you, please proceed with caution. But Never Fear. I have the solution. You can book your Free 15-minute call anytime.

Writers’ pain comes in many forms:

  • The sting of rejection.
  • The gnawing self-doubt that whispers, “Is my work good enough?”
  • The blank page that mocks you.
  • The isolation of spending hours alone with your thoughts.
  • The financial strain of pursuing a passion that doesn’t pay the bills.
  • The pressure to constantly create, produce, and promote.

We don’t discuss these things; we suffer in silence, convinced that we’re the only ones struggling. But the truth is, these pain points are universal.

So I’m opening the door. We’ll be discussing our pain here and in my weekly email. If you’re not getting that, sign up on linseyewing.com under the Get Access tab. You can also email me about these subjects and/or share your own pain points.

First, let me say, there is a solution. We’ll be delving into the pain, but I promise not to leave you brokenhearted. Acknowledging our pain is the first step toward finding relief.

You’re not alone, and these struggles don’t define your worth as a writer.

If any of these issues are currently bothering you, support is available. Book your free 15-minute meeting where we can discuss your specific challenges and explore potential strategies for overcoming them. Consider it a mini-therapy session for your writing soul.

You don’t have to suffer in silence. Let’s connect and start finding solutions.

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STRUGGLES & SUCCESSES

I’ve gotten to a stopping point on ASD, and I think it’s time to rest. I have several things going on in May, but it’s supposed to be a rest month from writing.

We’ll see how that goes. I’m very pleased with my current progress and I will decide in July which project to revisit.

CURRENT NOVEL PROGRESS

TDG Draft 5 Word Count: 18,292 (back from the dev. editor)

ASD Draft 0: 9,941

HAPPENING THIS MONTH

Tonight and every Tuesday through May: YouTube Stream at 5 PM Central / 6 EST

CREATIVE COLLECTIVE: The next meeting is Next Monday, June 2, at 7:30 PM Central / 8:30 EST

In Other News

Don’t forget about

Paperback Promo: Buy one, get one free on GOODBYE and LUKE. Signed and personalized for free. Shipping inside the US only.

and

LIVING WRITE: a 5-module course on creating a writing routine that works for you. Enrollment starts now and ends June 1. If you’re interested in either, contact me.

If you’re having trouble naming your passion, finding time to work, or just want to discuss your WIP, I’m only a click away. Take the time. You won’t regret it.

Start or Finish today. I can help.

Book your FREE 15 minutes

Until next time

xxxlinsey

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