Writers need solitude.
We need space to dream, to plan, to build castles in the air. Then we have to get those ideas on paper. It’s hard to do that with a house full of people who need you or the constant distraction of other, potentially more satisfying, activities.
Solitude is perhaps the greatest gift you can give a writer. Space, literal and figurative, to create.
But when does Solitude become Isolation? How are they different, and why is one dangerous?
I like these definitions:
Solitude is a chosen, intentional space for focused work, reflection, and creative replenishment. It’s a peaceful, productive withdrawal that allows ideas to germinate and words to flow without external distractions. Isolation, on the other hand, is an unwelcome and often prolonged state of being cut off, leading to feelings of loneliness, disconnection, and a lack of support.
I like the idea that we choose solitude, whereas isolation separates us from our support systems unwillingly.
Too many times, isolation can lead to low self-worth, writer’s block, and more devastating mental and physical health problems. It’s a serious problem, and it deserves serious help.
If you’re feeling isolated, get help now. As a reminder, you can book a free 15-minute meeting. Consider it a mini-writing-therapy session. You don’t have to suffer in silence. Let’s connect and start finding solutions.
STRUGGLES & SUCCESSES
I’ve felt isolated before, and it’s the pits. So I created an online community you can join where we encourage each other to be productive, practice self-care, and enjoy the ride. Here are some ideas to overcome isolation today.
- Join a Writing Group: I stream on YouTube on Tuesdays for connection, support, feedback, and camaraderie. I also host the Creative Collective for accountability once a month. See below for your invitations to both.
- Attend Writing Workshops or Conferences: I co-host the Space to Create Writing and Working retreats in French Camp, MS. There are also a multitude of online forums or social media groups dedicated to writing. I can help you find one or more (but not too many) that are right for you.
- Find a Writing Buddy: I partner with other writers for accountability, support, and shared goals.
- Prioritize Social Activities: I make time for social activities outside of writing life.
I’m sharing strategies to writers’ pain points here and in my weekly email. Have some you’d like to share? Let me know! If you’re not getting that email, sign up at linseyewing.com/get-access. You’ll also find some fun writer freebies.
CURRENT NOVEL PROGRESS
TDG Draft 5 Word Count: 18,292 (back from the dev. editor)
ASD Draft 0: 15,401
I’m still resting. The Daily Grind will resume in July.
HAPPENING THIS MONTH
Tonight, June 3rd, and June 17th: YouTube Stream at 5 PM Central / 6 EST
We’ll take a break for a few weeks and return in July. I also have a joint stream planned for the weekend of July 12. Might want to write that one down.
CREATIVE COLLECTIVE: The next meeting is Next Monday, June 2, at 7:30 PM Central / 8:30 EST. This is our accountability group, and you are more than welcome. Just email me for the Zoom link.
In Other News
Don’t forget about
Paperback Promo: Buy one, get one free on GOODBYE and LUKE. Signed and personalized for free. Shipping inside the US only. This Promotion is good through May 31!
and
LIVING WRITE: a 5-module course on creating a writing routine that works for you. Enrollment starts now and ends June 1. If you’re interested in either, contact me.
If you’re having trouble naming your passion, finding time to work, or just want to discuss your WIP, I’m only a click away. Take the time. You won’t regret it.
Start or Finish today. I can help.
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